What’s the story of your name?
- Maryam Obeyd
- Jun 30
- 1 min read
A simple question that generates meanings made and multiple stories. The ancestors say we choose our name before we are born. Contemporary thought brings in both a lens of mysticism with self-agency and choice, whether that be a chosen or preferred name, or by embracing the names given at birth.
In reflection,
Who named you, and under what cultural, historical, or political circumstances?
Does your name carry a story that was interrupted, erased, or mispronounced through colonization or assimilation?
Has your name ever been changed, shortened, or “translated” for others? How did that feel in your body?
What ancestral language(s) does your name come from, and what is its relationship to land, migration, or resistance?
In what ways might reclaiming or renaming yourself be a form of personal or collective liberation?
If you have a chosen name, what is the story of your chosen name and meaning?
A reflection from a liberation psychology lens:
What emotions rise when you speak your full name aloud?
What stories of belonging, displacement, or survival live in your name?
How does your name reflect your inner contradictions, your wounds, your strengths?
Does your name help you remember parts of yourself you’ve had to hide to survive?
If you could give your inner child a name today, what would it be? Why?
May your reflections generate much compassion, wisdom, and strength.
With gratitude,
Maryam Gazal